We're not trying to harm or manipulate women, even when we're talking about 'seducing' women. And when a guy wants to know how to seduce women, he's actually talking about the same things I teach, but we're just using different words.
We really do want to please women - and ourselves - by being the kind of confident man she wants. You see, when guys want to learn a seduction technique, they're not really talking about "seduction" at all... The kind of techniques that get a woman's attention like a clap of thunder...
This is one of the words I've tried to stay away from.
I also don't like talking about "seduction techniques" either. Mostly because I always felt that "seduction" had a bad meaning underneath it.
It sounds like sneakiness and angry male behavior, honestly.
And I've also never felt that learning "seduction" or "seduction techniques" is what men REALLY wanted. The first thing I realized is that most guys are actually very ethical about pursuing women.
The most important thing I teach men is how to be a better man by choosing methods that you don't have feel creepy or ashamed of.
Seduction techniques should do the following 2 things for you: 1. Most guys don't have the time or the interest to learn all these huge systems to seduce women, and all these thousands of seduction techniques.
We might want to be an expert, but we need something to just get us going, quick and easy. You don't want to feel like a creepy guy that just learned some slick lines to scam women into liking him.
However, most women will not like the term seduction.
The same way they don't like the term "pickup artist." After all, a pickup artist is simply an "Attraction Artist." But we guys like the title of "PUA," don't we?