In fact, this is the way MOST of my relationships have started.
I know one woman who was told by an “expert” to wait 10 dates before sleeping with the man she was dating. Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. And if you can’t handle the emotional consequences of making an occasional mistake, you probably shouldn’t sleep with anyone until you’re in a committed relationship. “Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if hes interested in YOU or in SEX.” Excellent point and one to never forget.
I repeat: Your sole responsibility before having sex is to figure out if he’s interested in YOU or in SEX. This has been my personal policy for the past three years – no committed relationship, no sex – and it’s worked very well for me.
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No doubt about it: The first time a woman beds down with a guy she’s crazy about is an exciting and special time. Whatever a woman’s decision, we had to wonder: Does the double standard still exist today? They push women for sex, then blame them for having sex.
Some women are happy to get down to business the night they meet; others will wait weeks or months before doing the deed.