If she pulls away at all, then slow down a bit and take some more time.
I never appreciate sudden disappearance and I prefer to know what it is about me that annoys people but I stopped expecting people to say "I dislike you and never want to see you again" when they could just fade out of my life.
I stopped expecting it when it came time to break up with my ex and she wanted to know why...
Such a complicated question with no satisfactory answer.
Over a year after, with plenty of excessive thought on the subject, this is as simple as I could imagine truthfully explaining it : You cheated, you lied, you kept cheating, you yelled at me so easily, you controlled me, you manipulated me, you isolated me from my friends, you refused to talk when a problem comes up, you screwed with my head, and you've made me more unstable than I've ever been.
And knowing her, she'd have been crying for hours if I'd told her all that, even if I tried to explain I loved her as much as I hated her. The most I was willing to say straight and direct was "You cheated." The rest was a huge part of it too but I hated the thought of hurting her even though I believed in being brutally honest.
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