Her fiancé of nine years wasn’t honest about why their relationship ended.Closure can teach you why your relationship didn’t work out, which helps with letting go of an ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, or spouse.
These tips are inspired by a reader who can’t accept that her relationship is over because she and her ex didn’t have closure.
The most important thing to remember about getting over a break up is that you’ll never truly be “over it.” You lose a piece of your heart when you lose someone you love.
But, this doesn’t mean you’ll never be happy again!
You need to grieve the end of your relationship, and give yourself time to heal.
Relationship closure is when you – whether you’re a married partner, boyfriend or girlfriend, disgruntled colleague, or unhappy family member – don’t discuss why your love relationship ended.
Relationship closure involves honest, healthy, open-minded, nonjudgmental communication.In my article about letting go of someone you love, a reader said she doesn’t feel she has closure.It just means your heart has been bruised, and your soul is learning how love and life works.Relationship closure is helpful because it allows you to say good-bye.If you aren’t sure what “relationship closure” is, read What is Relationship Closure? Below, I briefly describe what it is and offer a few ideas for getting over a break up when you haven’t had a chance to properly end your relationship.There are no easy answers or quick tips on how to heal from a break up without closure.