When you first start talking to a new girl, you may be so pumped that you talk fast, interrupt her, and disregard things she has said because you had another line or statement in queue.
Lee is an Interventional Spine and Pain Management physician specializing in non-operative management of neck, back and musculoskeletal pain, in addition to interventional spine procedures.
No matter how smart or interesting of a guy you are, it is impossible to speak for those first thirty minutes without messing up, saying something stupid, or going into a completely lame topic.
Luckily, girls will give you a pass on many of the foolish things you will say.
They understand that not every sentence that comes out of your mouth has to be a blockbuster, but if you continue to bomb you will be booed off the stage.
She doesn’t know you and doesn’t care much about you yet, so why would she? It becomes almost like a game of Mad Libs where you just change a few things to better target the girl you’re working on.
Therefore you must be able to talk continuously, but interestingly, for half an hour. Of course there are other ways to get laid than what I teach.
You must have in your toolbox a couple reliable routines and a basic framework of conversation based on the location you’re at (discussed at length in Bang). There are guys who can’t have good conversation yet still pull, but I guarantee you it’s not from cold approaching in a bar.
Only catch is she won’t talk a whole lot until she finds out you’re an interesting guy worth talking to.
In Bang I advise you to aim for zero silences during the first thirty minutes of conversation.