I worked up the nerve to write him and was thrilled when he replied, saying he was flattered to receive my email. Imagine my heartbreak when I discovered he doesn't exist.
He told me he is a great cook (perfect), loves the beach (ditto) and tries to work out but isn't always consistent (Hello, soul mate! I know many people on dating websites tell little white lies—putting a positive spin on their age, weight, income or the reason their last relationship broke up.
At the FBI, one Cyber Division section chief, Tim Gallagher, says most scammers operate from abroad, especially West Africa and the former Soviet republics.
In a typical scenario, the scammer creates a fake profile using photos of an attractive individual, in many cases lifted off social-networking sites.
Often, the written part of the profile is copied verbatim from a real profile or a recycled template. Once you are hooked, they hit you with some variation of several well-worn sob stories, Mr. Sometimes they say they live abroad and desperately want to visit you, but their country's banking system is broken. military service members trying to get back home and low on cash.
His profile said he was a widower and a veterinarian who travels, reads poetry and loves to shop.
He was adorable, with big hazel eyes and salt-and-pepper hair.
Many of the profiles on dating sites are scams, fake profiles people put up as a tool to get to know people they then trick into giving them money.Elizabeth Bernstein explains how the scams operate, and a few people's stories of being tricked.C.-based senior manager at an import-export company says he decided to try his chances on dating site e Harmony. We see an attractive person, or read an interesting profile, and soon we are projecting onto that person who we are looking for, letting our guard down, ignoring red flags. The Federal Bureau of Investigation says it gets thousands of complaints a year from people who have been fleeced by people they met on dating sites.Before long, he connected with a woman he says looked like a model. The online dating industry says scammers represent a small fraction of all profiles.She said she was 28 and worked for a British travel company. Samuels and the woman chatted on email and occasionally on the phone or Skype, discussing their families, jobs and interests. Then one day, she wrote and said her mother was very sick and she was trying to raise money to pay the hospital bill. "But scammers are aggressive," says Mark Brooks, an industry consultant who has worked with Cupid and Plentyof Fish."I was very flattered that a younger, attractive woman started paying me attention," recalls Mr. A lawsuit filed in December seeking class-action status in U. District Court in Dallas alleges that more than half the profiles on are "inactive, fake or fraudulent." Responding to questions about the lawsuit, president Mandy Ginsberg said the site has 1.9 million paid subscribers, fraud happens to very few of them and a full-time fraud-prevention team works to identify and block fake profiles.